The Wisdom Of She: This Is How You Love. "You have to let the sun rise, the flower bloom, the wind blow and love grow. The most precious gifts are offered, not taken. But what if it doesn’t come, that offering? What if life tackles us and we fail? What if they have to leave us, what if they die? Well, then, there you are in agony because you gave yourself honestly and so did they, and now parts of you will always be tangled together and they are gone".