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Releasing your childhood wounds empowers your parenting.
Healing emotional wounds from childhood may be challenging—but it's also very freeing. Releasing the wounds that have had you linked to the past allows you to see what's happening now w/o blinders on. This freedom from the past opens your eyes to what you & your child need to grow. The support you've been looking for is on the blog, in the products, or on social media. #childhood #proactiveparenting #parenting #challenging #personal #growth
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The Imaginary Horribles & Sunday Night sleep issues.
"The Imaginary Horribles" show when you don't have control over what's about to happen & Sunday night is the worst for imaginary horribles—cause you *need* sleep. Tip: Ask you / kids, what's the worst thing that could happen? What's the best thing that could happen? Can I/you think of what's in between worst & best that might happen? Questions bring fear/ lack of control to the surface to be expressed vs remaining repressed = stress & lack of sleep. #School #fear #anxiety #parenting #sleep
You know your kids are not adults. You know, they use immature thinking to interpret the world around them. ?? Have you ever asked yourself how your child interprets your yelling? It's not the way you think. When Your Adult Kids Ignore You, Childish Behaviour In Adults, Validating Your Childs Feelings, Children Are Not A Distraction Quote, Jean Piaget Theory Child Development, Thinking Of You, Parenting, Turn Ons
How does your child really interpret your yelling?
You know your kids are not adults. You know, they use immature thinking to interpret the world around them. ?? Have you ever asked yourself how your child interprets your yelling? It's not the way you think.
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Does this speak to you
I just read a post where a mom said, "Mothers are not burnt out—we are at the breaking point." My heart goes out to her and all those who feel this way. I want you to know that shifting how you parent takes some of the stress off. It places responsibility where it should be and not on you. Let me show you the POWER of shifting the words and actions you use with my free gift: 10 Breakthrough CHoices that END arguing. www.proactiveparenting.net #mindful #parenting #choices #boundaries
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Love, support, acknowledgement. Tell her. Tell a friend, a sister, a co-worker, tell her.
All moms need and want support. Moms whose kids are having a meltdown need to know they are doing a good job. Moms who have had no sleep need to hear that. Moms who feel guilty for screaming at the kids needs to hear. Tell her.
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You *are* a cycle-breaker raising a Trail-blazer. You're changing things and I applaud you!
You *know* you want more sweet than yelling & punishing moments in life. ~ You *know* you want your needs & lived experience respected. ~ You *know* you want better communication & boundaries. ~ You *know* you want to shift how you change behavior so you act & feel calm on the inside. If that's you, join me for a free *What's Possible* call. Let's talk about shifting behavior w/o causing damage to your child's true nature. Book a *What's Possible* call, @ Proactive Parenting. net
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Millennials w/ kids, are U trying to get boomer parents to help you raise kids your way not theirs?
If so, then THIS PODCAST is for you. 🎙️ All millennial parents & boomer grandparents will benefit from hearing about this dynamic. I learned a few things too! 🤯 We talked about boundaries, kids, boomer parents with millennial kids and parenting! 🙌 Do yourself a favor and listen, then make her a favorite; she's that good! 🎙️ To listen: podcasts.apple.com.podcast.parent-tell P.S. my computer is very funky today, so look her up if this link doesn't work, but check it out. #parenttell
This is a beautiful story that embraces all religions, and is perfect for our times. #christmas #gifts #traditions Santa Real, Parenting Solutions, Parenting Blog, Drive Me Crazy, More Words, Emotional Wellness, Life Skills, Kids Learning, Anger
How do you explain Santa? Non-religious story for our times.
This is a beautiful story that embraces all religions, and is perfect for our times. #christmas #gifts #traditions
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Why would I ever need a parent educator????
If you've you ever wondered what Proactive Parenting can do for you, then listen to this podcast to hear how I see parenting, connection, and drawing the line in the sand, and why I beleive they go hand in hand when trying to raise resilient kids. https://www.facebook.com/sharon.proactiveparenting #resilience #parenting #connection #parentingmethods #mindfulparenting #lineinthesand
Here's a peak at what's in the article: 6th paragraph: "No parent sets out to plant a trigger or create a life-long wound inside their child’s psyche. No child wants to feel the pain that arrives when a parent’s stinging words label their basic nature. Nobody wants that pain; it taints how we see our entire world. 10th paragraph: "Many believe their parenting will automatically differ from their parent’s because they’re from a different generation. There are some powerful aha's here. Parenting Blog, Wise Women, Drive Me Crazy, Conversation Starters, Limiting Beliefs, More Words, Emotional Wellness, Deep Thoughts, Family Life
Deep Thoughts and Kid Woo Woo article blog: proactiveparenting.net/blog
Here's a peak at what's in the article: 6th paragraph: "No parent sets out to plant a trigger or create a life-long wound inside their child’s psyche. No child wants to feel the pain that arrives when a parent’s stinging words label their basic nature. Nobody wants that pain; it taints how we see our entire world. 10th paragraph: "Many believe their parenting will automatically differ from their parent’s because they’re from a different generation. There are some powerful aha's here.
You know you're ready to transform your yelling & punishments into mindful ways to maintain your line in the sand, but you're not sure where to turn? Proactive Parenting is the answer. We provide you with methods to uplevel your parenting so it reduces emotional exhaustion and stress all while doing the most important job you have... maintaining, guiding, and teaching about the rules and boundaries life requires all of us to learn. TODAY it's all 30% off for Cyber Monday 2022. Parenting Methods, Parenting Solutions, Lose Your Mind, Self Control, Losing You, Audio Books, Mindfulness, Parenting, Turn Ons
Your heart says one thing & your mind says another...how do you decide which way you want to parent?
You know you're ready to transform your yelling & punishments into mindful ways to maintain your line in the sand, but you're not sure where to turn? Proactive Parenting is the answer. We provide you with methods to uplevel your parenting so it reduces emotional exhaustion and stress all while doing the most important job you have... maintaining, guiding, and teaching about the rules and boundaries life requires all of us to learn. TODAY it's all 30% off for Cyber Monday 2022.
Today you hoped the behavior from yesterday had magically disappeared. You're sick of punishing, and the yelling has strained your voice. You realize punishing doesn't teach; it simply causes kids to say whatever you want to hear so the interrogation will stop. You want practical actionable solutions to replace yelling, not theory, so you can do the job of correcting w/o the damage. Because, IRL, you need things to change now, not when things calm down. #holidays #kidsbehavior #noyelling Consequences For Not Listening, Every Choice Has A Consequence, Acceptable Vs Unacceptable Behavior, Consequences Of My Own Actions Meme, Unintended Consequences, Kids Behavior, Feeling Sick, Child Development, Simple Tricks
You want to stop yelling and punishing, but you have no idea what works that can take its place?
Today you hoped the behavior from yesterday had magically disappeared. You're sick of punishing, and the yelling has strained your voice. You realize punishing doesn't teach; it simply causes kids to say whatever you want to hear so the interrogation will stop. You want practical actionable solutions to replace yelling, not theory, so you can do the job of correcting w/o the damage. Because, IRL, you need things to change now, not when things calm down. #holidays #kidsbehavior #noyelling
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Sharing doesn't teach what you think it does.
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Secret Tip for wording choices so they END arguing about rules.
Did you know there is a secret to how to word choices so they end arguing about the rules? The name of the PDF for this secret tip , and it's my gift to you is... 30 Breakthrough Choices for Kids that Ends Arguing About Your Rules. #choicesforkids #parenting #rules #correcting #behavior #stop #arguing
You’ve had it with the fighting the kids are doing; your ears are ringing from all the yelling. It’s almost the holidays and frankly, with this type of fighting going on, you’re not sure you’d want to take your kids anywhere. What’s up with this anyways? Let me shed some light on this issue so you can address it before the holidays and all that comes along with that. #siblings #rivalry #Christmas #Holidaystress #jealousy #giftgiving #arguing #siblingfighting #yelling #timeout #anger Parenting Blog, Kids Behavior, Safe Space, Emotional Wellness, Family Life, Life Skills, Anger, Parenting, Feelings
Why do siblings always argue? Top tips to get to the bottom of why they’re fighting and fix it fast.
You’ve had it with the fighting the kids are doing; your ears are ringing from all the yelling. It’s almost the holidays and frankly, with this type of fighting going on, you’re not sure you’d want to take your kids anywhere. What’s up with this anyways? Let me shed some light on this issue so you can address it before the holidays and all that comes along with that. #siblings #rivalry #Christmas #Holidaystress #jealousy #giftgiving #arguing #siblingfighting #yelling #timeout #anger