"God resists the proud and gives grace to the humble" (Book of James). Maintaining control of yourself is a fundamental skill required to allow God to raise us from level to level as we become the person God created us to be.
That's just the way it is
.成功 是 一些些 小小的 努力 不斷不斷的累積而成的
hoarders of all kinds
Being a success at something you hate is still failing.