I remember walking through the city streets with a former boss once. Along the way, we passed many homeless people seeking cash, job leads and encouragement. He wondered out loud which of them should receive anything. I wondered silently how he could judge since, although I knew he'd had a troubled childhood, he'd never lived a day on the street.
If you are talking to Miss Hampton Arkansas you do not have to worry about hearing the truth. She never speaks the truth, just, lies every time she opens her mouth, even to her family members, believe me, I know, I have been there.