Spend your time to those who love you unconditionally
I 'get' this one but I know one 'my' issues is lack of trust anyway. I believe in being cautious but I'm battling whether or not it's paranoia or I really can't trust that person. Sometimes you fall prey to self fulfilling prophecies.... But I will pray on this one...
Live in the present.
This is what I mean what is wrong with people who are absolutely CALOUS TO THE CORE
I believe i said almost these exact words to you once!
Let the past stay there. Learn from it. Let it make you better than you were yesterday! :)